I've had a cappella singing on the brain lately. People are already buzzing about the next collegiate a cappella evening (March 1 at the Latchis), and that's part of it. On a personal level, my college group, the Trinity Pipes, celebrated their 70th anniversary this past weekend with a gala banquet which included wonderful reunions with old friends, good food and drink, toasts, roasts and anecdotes ... and a lot of singing.
It was one of the best evenings I've had in a long time, and I've been on cloud nine since I got home. It was great to reconnect with old friends — about a dozen Rusty Pipes from my vintage returned — and we had a lot of catching up to do. Some of them I haven't seen since we all left college. That was half a life ago, and we all have families, careers, home improvement projects to catch up on.
Even better was the singing. We old folks listened politely (I think) to the current version of the Pipes sing eight songs (they were great) and then, slowly, but surely, we cranked our vocal chords into gear. Once we got started, there was little holding us back, and the whole thing was euphoric.
The pleasure came on many levels — friendship, the pure joy of singing, the connection to a larger family of singers, the chance to show all this off to my very tolerant wife — but I think the real crux of it is smaller, more personal. The stories, the friendships, the love we had for each other — those can all be rekindled through reunions, meetings, letters, family visits etc.
But there's something very special about being able to sing "Julianne," "Home Again," "Trinity Blues" and all the other old songs with these dear people one more time. You don't really know how much you miss the old songs and the old harmonies until you sing them again.
I've had all the most important days of my life since I left the Pipes — I got married, my children were born, I watched first my father then my mother die, I've made decisions that have wrecked and saved my life — but until all that, my days with the Pipes were among the best I'd had. And those days were best expressed through the songs we sung together — back then, and on Saturday night, one more time.